
In a divorce, the parties enter into a parenting plan. The best parenting plan is one where you and your ex can work together, be flexible when changes occur, and focus on your child’s best interests.
However, when you’re stuck because you can’t agree, you need to look again at the parenting plan and start abiding by it. Adherence to the plan alleviates most disagreements. Everyone should know what’s expected of them in the future, because it’s all laid out there.
The Florida Supreme Court provides specific language to help prepare parenting plans. It allows parenting plans to be tailored to your child’s needs and the particular situations you face.
If your parenting plan can be tailored closely to your case and what’s in your child’s best interest, that is the way to create a plan that will endure long-term.
It’s difficult when the other parent is not properly co-parenting. Fortunately, there are steps the court can take to assist you.
For instance, the court can appoint a parent coordinator to assist you in your communication with your ex by bridging the gap between your respective positions. Specifically, the parent coordinator can ensure you’re communicating effectively, so that both of you are heard, and issues can be resolved. They can also help you and your ex enter into secondary agreements for specific situations.
A common co-parenting mistake to avoid is failing to discuss major decisions with your ex. For instance, your ex might unilaterally enroll your child in a school that makes it difficult for you to pick up and drop off. Another example might be if you made medical decisions for your child without communicating with your ex. What if they wanted to get a second opinion but were not given the option?
Regarding major decisions, both parties should refrain from making unilateral decisions without discussing them with each other.
Sometimes, when you and your ex are unable to co-parent, the best option is to enter into a parenting plan. A well-crafted parenting plan in which each of you knows exactly what’s expected is essential.
Once you know the details, such as when you’re dropping off and picking up, or when your child will be with you and when they’ll be returned, most of the suspicion, arguments and problems you had before dissipate.
For more information on co-parenting after divorce in Florida, an initial consultation is your next best step. Get the information and legal answers you are seeking by calling (239) 334-4383 today.
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